what to do?
Hi, I have been living with my partner for 7 years and been with him for 10.
He has a lot of friend and I have very few. which I'm fine about. However, I do not speak to my parents because of something that happened. He has started speaking to them and going round to their house, when I'm at work. He keeps on telling me that it does not interfere with "us time" but it does when my mother keeps on texting him and arranging days out with him, doing things he and I could have done together. Its really annoying me, and my partner just says "o we can go again next week"
The other problem is my friends at work. They asked to see him about 7 months ago, so we went out to the pub together, so he gets on with my work mates. Recently 1 of these workmates decided to belittle me on the shop floor. I was very angry so simply have not spoken to her since.
When my partner pops into work to speak to me she literally pole volts from whatever she is doing onto him. I'm sure she is trying to annoy me. I've asked my partner to stop coming into work but he just laughs it off.
It was her birthday the other week and she has asked everyone to the pub, except me, which was fine, I would not have gone anyway. Then I find on my partners phone this morning that he has been around to her house to give her a present a few days before her birthday.
I feel angry because my partner does not see that what he is doing is annoying me so much, I ask him not to do thing and he just says don't be silly. And does what he wants to do regardless.
I don't feel I am being silly.
At the moment I'm so angry.
I would leave him, however, when he's not going behind my back hes a really nice person and I love him.
What's your advice?