Why Is He So Selfish, Please Help!!!

by Ella

Why is he so selfish? please help!
I don’t know if he is being lazy.. I know he loves me very much, he always shows me he loves me.
I am always ready to make love, I love sex! But he doesn’t seem to excite me as much as he did, he doesn’t try to make me happy in bed… I always give him oral sex (he loves when I do) but when is on me he does it, but its very rare… he said to me he was sorry for being selfish..

I get so angry and I think I am going to stop being always ready for him. What should I do? He always wants to make love WHEN he wants it, NOT when I want… and he doesn’t do what I want, but I always do what he wants..
What should I do to make things better? I have spoken to him about it, I told him he is selfish, but he doesn’t do anything about it. Should I start to ignore him?

I am 23 and he is 30