Ok, the best way to deal with this is to mirror his behavior back to him. Don't be difficult just do what you want to do when you want to do it.
That's fair enough isn't it? How can he complain, he's set the standard for how to behave himself. Don't make a point of this, don't even bring it up, just do it, make it about you for a while.
Let him bring it up, when he does just gently show him how what he now doesn't like is what he's been doing all along. Really avoid accusations or finger pointing here. The goal here is for him to realize by himself how he's making you feel, he probably won't like being told.
