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Overcome low self esteem and move closer to success with self honestyIf there is one key to overcome low self esteem that carries higher value than all others, one key action or process that will bring about more positive change to our lives than any other, then it surely is this: Self honesty truly is the master key to unlock the door to our greatest achievements. A lack of self honesty can be devastating to your life. The man or woman who cannot be honest with themselves lives in a world of denial and delusion. It’s honest dealings and interactions with others will to a large extent provide the physical things that will aid in our happiness. We must first create this honesty within ourselves before we can give it to others in our dealings. Lets be clear, when I say we must be honest, I’m not suggesting that we are all seedy, manipulative, liars and cheats, so on and so forth. Not at all I’m describing the ability to accurately evaluate a situation and face the outcome truthfully in our minds, even when the truth is very unpleasant. This is the type of character we need to develop. Most of us go to great lengths to avoid the truth, usually in a harmful way. Alcohol and drug addiction is probably the most extreme way to forget or avoid the truth. Watching excessive amounts of television, video gaming and unproductive literature, are all ways to avoid facing reality. Oversleeping is another great way if you wish to just stick your head in the sand and ignore all that is going on. Nothing wrong with any of these things, I’m not suggesting you cut anything out of your life. What you do is your business, just be aware and don’t use these past times as a means to procrastinate. Ask question as to how much benefit these things are adding to you. Overcoming low self esteem and confidence will come when we know we are a person of value. Find the motivation to develop this. Without self honesty our map is useless. We must know where we are
to effectively set course to where we are going.
Overcome low self esteem through a value system
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