Law Of Attraction And Positive Thinking Explained…
To successfully utilize the Law of Attraction, we must learn to think in a habitually positive way.
Now let me qualify this. When I say think in a positive way, I am not referring to the happy clappy, I think I can, I think I can, school of thought. No, lets get this clear. This might well be excellent, I don’t know, but it’s not what I mean here. When I refer to positive thinking I mean…
Always see the good in situations and people. There is always a benefit to be gained and a lesson to learn. Don’t resign to your emotions.
Don’t ignore the bad, that’s called stupidity, just don’t dwell on it. There is a benefit to be gained and a lesson to be learned. Every situation and person carries this gift with them. Seek the positive and put the law of attraction to work for you. We do not have to like the person or the circumstance, we do not have to enjoy it, we just have to learn from it. Our greatest adversaries carry with them the potential to be our greatest teachers. Lets look for this and use it to our advantage.
When we encounter resistance, do not become negative, get excited. This alone will change your life. How many of the 95% welcome trouble? We must accurately and
honestly evaluate all situations.
We can’t pretend, that is not the game we are playing. When what’s less than desired is presented before us we have to acknowledge that, in order that we make good, sensible decisions. The key here is just not to dwell on it. Make it a small part of a bigger picture, not the main attraction. What we focus on grows. Lets make sure what we grow is good! The law of attraction will do this.
Look for empowering meanings in every situation. Events themselves are meaningless. They are neither good nor bad. One mans joy is another mans misery. Some people are happy rich, some are happy poor, some happy married, some happy single, get my point? The reverse is also true in all accounts. Events do not carry happiness or sadness in themselves. It is what an event means to us, that determines how we react to it. That meaning is determined by us. This again is another life changing statement that if you can grasp it and apply it, it will transform you to the next level of evolution.
We must find empowering meaning in every situation. To quote Dr Wayne Dyer “change the way we see things and the things we see will start to change”. Look for meaning that strengthens and helps us. Not the opposite. Looking for the negative meaning is a completely self defeating act and the action of a fool! Seek the abundance not the lack of.
Think the best in the absence of evidence. Stop making statements like “I just know“. You don’t know. In thinking negatively of a situation before you know the outcome, you are far, far more likely to take action that will bring about that negative outcome by your own hand. You will become a self fulfilled prophecy. The law of attraction will always oblige. You will in fact become a self fulfilled prophecy either way, lets just make sure we are prophesying good things. By thinking the good, we just use this same fact to our advantage. Makes sense right?
In the absence of evidence, think the best. Think people like you, think you did well at a job interview, think people's motivation is good and so on. Why think bad when there is no more or no less reason to think good. Stop road blocking yourself for no good reason...you might be pleasantly surprised at the outcome.
Never speak bad of people, say nothing. Basic stuff. Speaking bad, even if justified is still negativity and the law of attraction will bring that negativity back to you. The people you need in your life are not going to be attracted to this. When you speak bad of one to another it brings about the question of how does this person speak of me when I am not around? If you must speak of somebody in such a way, make sure that person being spoken of is present and given opportunity to explain and defend their position. Best to be avoided altogether though. Disputes happen, of course. When they do, deal directly with the parties involved. Do this in private, not public and do not turn the situation into gossip and public news.
So hopefully this clears up a few misconceptions about positive thinking and the Law of Attraction.
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Great post! Thinking positively is one important key for success. It's also important that we overcome the "What-if-it-is" in life and business. We ...