Face Change With Confidence When You Know What To Expect
A few points to bare in mind Realistic expectation is essential if we are to proceed with the
confidence of positive results.
We must deal in facts, not what we want it to be, hope for it to be, or wish it was. The way it is, is the way it is. There are no short cuts, only wise paths. This site is for those who are serious about themselves and the world they live in. There are no Mac solution to your Mac problems here! Lets quickly set some realistic expectations.
This is not for the faint of heart, this is toughThis requires confidence, dedication and commitment. Only those with strong motivation and a real desire to change will succeed.
You must be able to accept a few principles on faithThe evidence is generally found in the doing. If you require evidence before engaging in the doing, you are going to find this difficult. If this was obvious or logical all would be doing it! It’s not obvious, it’s not logical, at least not to begin with. Acting upon faith will allow you to have experiences that those who require evidence will never have. It is in those experiences that the answers we all seek lie. Faith is a must! Do not rely on emotions to guide you.
This is your life, it’s your responsibilityWe may have 10 lives to live, who knows? But right now we have got one! One chance, one shot, that’s it. Past lives or existence beyond what we know is irrelevant. The past is just that and the future does not yet exist. Admittedly it is wise to have one eye on the future but essentially we must live and operate in the present. We must make the most and best use of today. We have the power to act upon today and bring about any change we choose. History, family, upbringing and education are not relevant. Nobody is responsible for how you act today other than you.
There can be no excuses only solutions We simply cannot allow ourselves to explain problems and obstacles away. They must be overcome, our happiness depends on it. There is no such thing as excusable failure. There is only failure. Do not allow yourself to become comfortable in procrastination or explaining to yourself why work cannot be completed. Any problem can be overcome if enough time is given to it. We will encounter problems, when have you ever not? This is life. Getting good at life involves facing problems with confidence.
Now that we have a better understanding of what is required, lets proceed to our first step of taking charge!
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